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PART 2: THE SUPERPOWERS

2.25 CAREGIVING CAPABILITY

Parenting and mentorship appear elsewhere in this book. Caring for someone who is ill, disabled, or declining is a different domain and it is largely undocumented anywhere as skilled work.

What differs. The relationship is often non-reciprocal, the horizon is indefinite, the trajectory may be downward, and the work involves another adult's autonomy rather than a child's development. Success is not improvement. It is that the person was safe, comfortable and treated as themselves, for as long as that was possible.

Care coordination, physical assistance, medication, finances, legal administration, and decisions for another adult can require formal training, documented authority, supported decision-making, and professional input. Do not perform physical handling without an appropriate assessment, equipment, and instruction.

Preserve the person's dignity, communication, preferences, consent, and decision-making support to the greatest lawful extent. Caregiving can affect the carer's health and function, but decline is not inevitable or uniform; seek practical, clinical, financial, or respite support according to the actual need.

The hardest capability in this domain is recognising when you cannot continue, and acting on it before a crisis makes the decision. That is not abandonment. Deciding in advance what your limits are, and what happens when they are reached, is part of the work rather than a failure of it.