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PART 2: THE SUPERPOWERS
2.19 LIFE DESIGN, VOCATION & OPTION PROTOTYPING
Everything in this book accelerates you along a chosen direction. This section is for the moment before that — when you do not know which direction deserves your life, or suspect the current one no longer does. The error to avoid is the one most people make: treating a life as something you decide once, in your head, irreversibly, with no data. Lives can be prototyped. Cheaply. Before you spend a decade finding out.
Instruments
• Write two half-page views. First, your view of work: what work is for, what makes it good, what it owes you and you it. Second, your view of a good life: what actually matters, what a well-lived week contains, what you refuse to trade. Then check coherence — most career misery lives in the gap between these two documents.
• Run an energy log for two weeks. Note, day by day, which activities produced engagement and energy and which drained you regardless of how important they looked. You are collecting evidence about the life you already have before designing the next one.
• Design three genuinely different five-year lives. Life one: your current path, done well. Life two: the adjacent pivot — same strengths, different vehicle. Life three: the wildcard you would attempt if money and image were quiet. For each, sketch not just the work but the location, the relationships, the weekly structure, the identity. Score each for meaning, viability, cost, and reversibility.
• Prototype before you commit. The ladder: one conversation with someone living that life (ask what a real week looks like and what they would warn you about); then a visit or shadow day; then a small real project inside the new territory; then a bounded trial. Every rung buys information at a fraction of the price of the leap — and most wrong futures reveal themselves by rung two.
Reframes
Three common assumptions can be tested rather than accepted: that there is one perfect calling, that change is no longer feasible, or that an imagined path is already known to be good or bad. Use small prototypes to gather information, while recognising that switching costs, responsibilities and stable commitments may make staying the better choice.