# PWR-165 — Distress tolerance: learner worksheet

Release: Revision 7T · Full Tutorial Edition
Estimated time: Estimated 15 min reading; practical time is provider-set
Difficulty: Intermediate
Equipment: Basic stationery or digital tools — a therapist-led distress-tolerance skill within an agreed safety plan.; Written safety plan with warning signs, pause signal, support contacts, emergency route and prohibited triggers.; A private sheet for distress, urge, orientation, chosen action, support and later effect.
Space: Desk / seated

Automated structural checklist: 10 of 10 structural checks present
Evidence quality/context: G4; Focused research depth
Automated method-quality band: Comprehensive
Method-rating basis: Structure coverage, instruction/check specificity, alternative distinctness, source troubleshooting, comparison depth and whether purpose/check fields are authored rather than derived.

Editorial review: Pending manual editorial sign off

## Before you begin
- [ ] I read the tutorial authority and stop conditions.
- [ ] I have the required equipment/space or a declared accessible alternative.

## Canonical source context

This lesson teaches a therapist-led distress-tolerance skill inside a written safety plan. The learner checks danger, names the next safe action, anchors to the present, allows the feeling without obeying an urge, waits for a short interval and reviews function. Tolerance never means enduring abuse, medical danger or escalating crisis.

Target outcome: In a therapist-approved low-intensity scenario, the learner uses the planned skill for the assigned interval and completes or safely declines the next action without acting on a harmful urge.

### Authority and setup conditions

- Prepare a therapist-led mild distress scenario and one agreed skill inside an individual safety plan
- Before the first distress tolerance attempt, write the exact result you will score: Chosen safe action, support and later function while distress is present.
- The therapist checks current safety, suicidality, self-harm, aggression, substance use, trauma, dissociation and medical symptoms.
- Agree the maximum distress, interval and what ends the exercise immediately.

### Required or supplied materials

- a therapist-led distress-tolerance skill within an agreed safety plan.
- Written safety plan with warning signs, pause signal, support contacts, emergency route and prohibited triggers.
- A private sheet for distress, urge, orientation, chosen action, support and later effect.

## 1. Check danger and leave if needed

Ask whether there is immediate physical, medical, interpersonal or self-harm danger. Follow the safety plan if yes; do not begin the skill.

Why: Distress tolerance is not a substitute for safety action.

Success check: The learner and therapist agree the scenario is safe and low intensity.

Accessible alternative: Ask the qualified provider to adapt positioning, cue modality, pace, interface or rest while preserving this step’s declared check: “The learner and therapist agree the scenario is safe and low intensity.” If an adaptation changes the measured task or configuration, record it as a different configuration rather than an equivalent attempt.

Alternative relationship: Conditional equivalence requires target and configuration check

Learner notes:

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Completed: [ ]

## 2. Name the next safe action

Choose one action for after the interval, such as send no message, sit with support or return to a neutral task.

Why: A specific destination prevents “endure distress” becoming an endless goal.

Success check: The action is safe, small and possible within the session.

Accessible alternative: Ask the qualified provider to adapt positioning, cue modality, pace, interface or rest while preserving this step’s declared check: “The action is safe, small and possible within the session.” If an adaptation changes the measured task or configuration, record it as a different configuration rather than an equivalent attempt.

Alternative relationship: Conditional equivalence requires target and configuration check

Learner notes:

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Completed: [ ]

## 3. Rate distress and urge separately

Record distress 0–10 and the strength of the main urge 0–10, naming the urge without acting on it.

Why: Feeling intensity and action pressure can change differently.

Success check: Both ratings and the urge are visible before practice.

Accessible alternative: Ask the qualified provider to adapt positioning, cue modality, pace, interface or rest while preserving this step’s declared check: “Both ratings and the urge are visible before practice.” If an adaptation changes the measured task or configuration, record it as a different configuration rather than an equivalent attempt.

Alternative relationship: Conditional equivalence requires target and configuration check

Learner notes:

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Completed: [ ]

## 4. Orient to the present

Use the approved anchor: state the date and place, feel the chair or support and identify three neutral objects.

Why: Present orientation can reduce loss of context without demanding calm.

Success check: The learner remains aware of place, time, therapist and pause signal.

Accessible alternative: Ask the qualified provider to adapt positioning, cue modality, pace, interface or rest while preserving this step’s declared check: “The learner remains aware of place, time, therapist and pause signal.” If an adaptation changes the measured task or configuration, record it as a different configuration rather than an equivalent attempt.

Alternative relationship: Conditional equivalence requires target and configuration check

Learner notes:

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Completed: [ ]

## 5. Use the agreed acceptance words

Repeat the therapist-approved sentence, such as “This feeling is here; I do not have to act on the urge in this minute.”

Why: The sentence separates experience from immediate action.

Success check: The learner can state the feeling and retain choice about behaviour.

Accessible alternative: Ask the qualified provider to adapt positioning, cue modality, pace, interface or rest while preserving this step’s declared check: “The learner can state the feeling and retain choice about behaviour.” If an adaptation changes the measured task or configuration, record it as a different configuration rather than an equivalent attempt.

Alternative relationship: Conditional equivalence requires target and configuration check

Learner notes:

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Completed: [ ]

## 6. Wait for the short interval

Run the agreed one- to five-minute timer while keeping access to the therapist and anchor. Do not extend it to prove toughness.

Why: A bounded interval makes tolerance observable and protects against escalation.

Success check: The timer ends at the planned point with safety and orientation intact.

Accessible alternative: Ask the qualified provider to adapt positioning, cue modality, pace, interface or rest while preserving this step’s declared check: “The timer ends at the planned point with safety and orientation intact.” If an adaptation changes the measured task or configuration, record it as a different configuration rather than an equivalent attempt.

Alternative relationship: Conditional equivalence requires target and configuration check

Learner notes:

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Completed: [ ]

## 7. Re-rate and choose

Record distress, urge and orientation again. Complete the safe action, use more support or stop according to the plan.

Why: Success is safe choice under distress, not necessarily a lower number.

Success check: The decision follows the plan even if distress remains present.

Accessible alternative: Ask the qualified provider to adapt positioning, cue modality, pace, interface or rest while preserving this step’s declared check: “The decision follows the plan even if distress remains present.” If an adaptation changes the measured task or configuration, record it as a different configuration rather than an equivalent attempt.

Alternative relationship: Conditional equivalence requires target and configuration check

Learner notes:

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Completed: [ ]

## 8. Review later effect

With the therapist, check rebound, avoidance, shame, sleep and function later in the day. Adjust the plan before another trial.

Why: Immediate survival can carry delayed cost that matters for treatment.

Success check: The next decision includes delayed effects and support used.

Accessible alternative: Ask the qualified provider to adapt positioning, cue modality, pace, interface or rest while preserving this step’s declared check: “The next decision includes delayed effects and support used.” If an adaptation changes the measured task or configuration, record it as a different configuration rather than an equivalent attempt.

Alternative relationship: Conditional equivalence requires target and configuration check

Learner notes:

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Completed: [ ]

## Reflection

What changed?

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What remains difficult?

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What will I repeat, adapt, ask for help with, or stop?

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Completion of this worksheet demonstrates tutorial participation only. It does not establish capability, qualification, safety clearance, diagnosis, treatment or independent validation.
